From 27 Going to 30s

We have been talking about this topic over and over again this lately and it really makes me think...



Can’t really describe what is the exact mixture feeling that I’m having right now - to have to go into the 30’s-mid-life-crisis; where people around you they no longer advice you to get married anymore but to threaten you. Hee…


Started to feel something is 'wrong', when the last old maid in the gangs (I’m the second last, of course) is planning for her next year Feb-wedding. Arghhh! It’s not fair, she is leaving the club, and she has forgotten all the promises to be singled together!


Life is so wrong: Everyone is moving on with their spouse and children, while I’m still enjoying my comics, watching the horror movies, shop like there is no tomorrow and etc… things that I kept doing for the past 10 years since Uni days. Well, it makes me feel young and lively, BUT all gone wrong now, when everyone is changing and I am still the same.


Even the most wonderful protective man (dad) in my life, who once said that I can stay single as long as I like, is now secretly telling my mom that I should end my single life! This is not fair! I feel thrown out! I feel like an empress whose crowd is violently and cruelly robbed. I have always been the most pampered one in the family and now, this is my downfall!


To get married or not to get married?! Well, can I just bury my head into the sand like the ostrich just for another 2 years before I reach 30? Or if I get married, then my life should stay the same: mid-night movies, late night supper without worrying when to change the diapers, short vacation with best friends only (no husband, kids, please!) once in a while; sleep vertical or horizontal as I wish (the bed should belong to only me!); no complain if I’m not going to comb my hair or wash the laundry or clean up the house; etc… etc… etc… that’s me!


Well, those whoever is reading this now, consider this: Do you think a kid-liked person herself should have a kid, while she herself is still so kiddo?


I’m off from this topic! I need fresh air, a cup of good coffee and a mind-relax movie, well, a companion of a single lad friend will be needed to balance the negative charge.

Home Sweet Home

Changed my mind once again, will get an apartment instead of a doube-storey link house.  In fact, getting an apartment is my intial plan, which I think it suits me as a single, who hates doing house chores, which one of them would be maintaining the yard.  Well, it is affardable as well compared to a double-storey link house.
Just wonder, what shall i get for the aparment...
1.  A bull terry (... well, it has nothing to do with apartment though, it is just a pet that i've craved for so long)
2.  A set of home theatre and a set of comfort leather sofa.
3.  A jaccuzi?! ... Mmmm... It would be perfectly nice if i got myself a double-storey house.  Well, cancelled this. 
4.  Fluffy bed!  There is nothing like crawling into bed with freshly laundered sheets and fluffy warm blankets.  The feeling is gonna be so "wow".  Opss... plus with a lot of pillows too. Hee...
5.  And a good kitchen too!
6.  To be continued...
Looking forward to get it soon and hope to have my family here too. 
Love is what makes a house called "home" and "home" is the place that keeps everyone together.